There are traits that some people carry from while they are single and they cannot drop it even after marriage. It would be\u00a0like hoping that a right-handed spouse will one\u00a0day become left-handed so you need to shine your eyes now and watch out for the following kinds of people. Be wary of these 12 groups of people and never (under any circumstance) accept their proposal or propose to them.<\/p>\n
12 Kinds Of People You Should Avoid Getting Married To<\/strong><\/h3>\n1. Those Who Have Excessive Or Inadequate Libido<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Sexual intercourse is a very important factor in\u00a0marriage, but when you have a spouse that needs\u00a0it for breakfast, lunch, dinner and supper, it becomes\u00a0difficult to have any peace in the family. Infidelity\u00a0also knocks on the door. On the other hand, when\u00a0you have a spouse that hates sex or thinks that\u00a0sex should be an annual event undertaken during\u00a0the wedding anniversary or birthday celebration,\u00a0then you know that you have some real trouble in\u00a0the house. Infidelity also usually becomes the solution. This is made\u00a0worse by the fact that sex is\u00a0one topic that couples find difficult to discuss, even with those who genuinely want to help\u00a0resolve the marital rift.<\/p>\n2. Those Who Can Never\u00a0Apologise<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you,\u00a0but still, they would never apologise, because they believe\u00a0that it would belittle them. When you\u00a0are wrong, you apologize to them, and when you\u00a0are right, you still apologise to them, hoping that they would change. But they never do. Soon\u00a0you start to feel irritated and agitated. The love\u00a0and respect you felt for them starts to wear out.<\/p>\n3. Those Who Can Never Say Thank You<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful.\u00a0They make statements like: \u201cWhy should I say\u00a0thank you when you are just doing your duty?\u201d\u00a0Some would say that their gratitude is in their\u00a0heart. So, do I have to open your heart to see the\u00a0gratitude inside and get it? Ingratitude is an\u00a0attitude that causes irritation, frustration and\u00a0unhappiness.\u00a0Such people also believe the world owes them a\u00a0lot. They go around their activities with an\u00a0entitlement mentality. They are difficult to please. You are better off trying to please an irate donkey.<\/p>\n4. Men Who Think Women Are To Be Seen But Not Heard<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>In spite of\u00a0the depth of education they profess, some men still live in the 16th century. It is true that\u00a0marriage is not a zone for feminist crusade, but if\u00a0a man has archaic views about women, then\u00a0please avoid him like you would do an Ebola patient. Watch out\u00a0for statements like: \u201cHow can an ordinary woman\u00a0want to be the CEO?\u201d \u201cHow can a woman debate\u00a0with men?\u201d<\/p>\n5. \u00a0That Lady\u00a0Who Believes She\u00a0Doesn\u2019t Need A Man In Her Life<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Such women believe that they are self-sufficient\u00a0in all things. They have the ‘I-don\u2019t-give-a-damn\u00a0attitude’. Men feel ill at ease when they are with\u00a0women who don\u2019t allow a room in their lives for a\u00a0man to fill. Such women find it difficult to express\u00a0love. They always believe a man wants to\u00a0dominate them. They are usually too defensive,\u00a0too competitive, and too contentious. Men who\u00a0relate with them usually feel frustrated. Such men\u00a0always choose their words and actions carefully\u00a0to avoid quarrels. That smothers affection and\u00a0joy.<\/p>\n6.\u00a0That Cute Guy\u00a0who Is\u00a0Looking For A Housemaid And Not A Wife<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>These are men who still live in the 15th century in\u00a0this modern age. They have an archaic idea of\u00a0what the role of a woman is. They believe that\u00a0women are only meant to cook, clean the house,\u00a0bear children, and serve the men.\u00a0They believe that when men talk, women just\u00a0have to obey; when men talk, women must keep\u00a0quiet. The man can keep mistresses, but the\u00a0woman should keep quiet and not even be seen\u00a0greeting a man. A woman should not work, should\u00a0not step out of the house, and should not\u00a0complain, whatever the man doles out to her. When You see such people, run for your life.<\/p>\n7. Those Who Can Never Trust Anybody<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>These are those who believe that everybody is an\u00a0enemy. Everybody is filled with evil designs\u00a0against them. They have an obsession with fear\u00a0of people, including their spouse, that is rather irritating. Once a spouse cannot be trusted, there\u00a0can never be joy in the family. They see through\u00a0every action. They believe that everybody has evil\u00a0intentions.<\/p>\n8. Those Who Have No Respect For Others<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>People can mouth love, but without respect, a\u00a0marriage can never be happy. Women who love to\u00a0prove a point by insulting their husbands, or men\u00a0who believe in treating their wives without dignity\u00a0in the name of cutting their wives to size: such\u00a0people make terrible marriage partners. Nothing\u00a0kills marriages like disrespect.<\/p>\n9. Ladies\u00a0Who See All Men As Competition<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Marriage is not a place for activism.\u00a0A woman\u00a0who sees a man as a competitor rather than a\u00a0complement is a dangerous person to marry.\u00a0When a man has to contend with a woman every\u00a0minute, when a man is always too conscious of\u00a0what to say or do to his wife, then there is a\u00a0problem at home.<\/span><\/p>\n10. Those Who Can\u2019t Control Their Temper<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Hot-tempered people are dangerous. They can\u00a0utter anything in anger. They can do things that\u00a0they will regret for life. They can be violent. Their\u00a0words can be venomous. They can put you in\u00a0trouble. They are unpredictable.<\/p>\n11. Those Who Cannot Forgive<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Forgiveness makes us look superhuman. But\u00a0there are those who cannot forgive, no matter the\u00a0circumstances. Not only can they not forgive, they\u00a0can also not forget. Because they can\u2019t forgive,\u00a0they usually think of how to get revenge.<\/p>\n12. Those Who Have Not Been Weaned Off Their Parents<\/h3>\n
<\/a>Sexual intercourse is a very important factor in\u00a0marriage, but when you have a spouse that needs\u00a0it for breakfast, lunch, dinner and supper, it becomes\u00a0difficult to have any peace in the family. Infidelity\u00a0also knocks on the door. On the other hand, when\u00a0you have a spouse that hates sex or thinks that\u00a0sex should be an annual event undertaken during\u00a0the wedding anniversary or birthday celebration,\u00a0then you know that you have some real trouble in\u00a0the house. Infidelity also usually becomes the solution. This is made\u00a0worse by the fact that sex is\u00a0one topic that couples find difficult to discuss, even with those who genuinely want to help\u00a0resolve the marital rift.<\/p>\n2. Those Who Can Never\u00a0Apologise<\/h3>\n
<\/a>They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you,\u00a0but still, they would never apologise, because they believe\u00a0that it would belittle them. When you\u00a0are wrong, you apologize to them, and when you\u00a0are right, you still apologise to them, hoping that they would change. But they never do. Soon\u00a0you start to feel irritated and agitated. The love\u00a0and respect you felt for them starts to wear out.<\/p>\n3. Those Who Can Never Say Thank You<\/h3>\n
<\/a>Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful.\u00a0They make statements like: \u201cWhy should I say\u00a0thank you when you are just doing your duty?\u201d\u00a0Some would say that their gratitude is in their\u00a0heart. So, do I have to open your heart to see the\u00a0gratitude inside and get it? Ingratitude is an\u00a0attitude that causes irritation, frustration and\u00a0unhappiness.\u00a0Such people also believe the world owes them a\u00a0lot. They go around their activities with an\u00a0entitlement mentality. They are difficult to please. You are better off trying to please an irate donkey.<\/p>\n4. Men Who Think Women Are To Be Seen But Not Heard<\/h3>\n
<\/a>In spite of\u00a0the depth of education they profess, some men still live in the 16th century. It is true that\u00a0marriage is not a zone for feminist crusade, but if\u00a0a man has archaic views about women, then\u00a0please avoid him like you would do an Ebola patient. Watch out\u00a0for statements like: \u201cHow can an ordinary woman\u00a0want to be the CEO?\u201d \u201cHow can a woman debate\u00a0with men?\u201d<\/p>\n5. \u00a0That Lady\u00a0Who Believes She\u00a0Doesn\u2019t Need A Man In Her Life<\/h3>\n
<\/a>Such women believe that they are self-sufficient\u00a0in all things. They have the ‘I-don\u2019t-give-a-damn\u00a0attitude’. Men feel ill at ease when they are with\u00a0women who don\u2019t allow a room in their lives for a\u00a0man to fill. Such women find it difficult to express\u00a0love. They always believe a man wants to\u00a0dominate them. They are usually too defensive,\u00a0too competitive, and too contentious. Men who\u00a0relate with them usually feel frustrated. Such men\u00a0always choose their words and actions carefully\u00a0to avoid quarrels. That smothers affection and\u00a0joy.<\/p>\n6.\u00a0That Cute Guy\u00a0who Is\u00a0Looking For A Housemaid And Not A Wife<\/h3>\n
<\/a>These are men who still live in the 15th century in\u00a0this modern age. They have an archaic idea of\u00a0what the role of a woman is. They believe that\u00a0women are only meant to cook, clean the house,\u00a0bear children, and serve the men.\u00a0They believe that when men talk, women just\u00a0have to obey; when men talk, women must keep\u00a0quiet. The man can keep mistresses, but the\u00a0woman should keep quiet and not even be seen\u00a0greeting a man. A woman should not work, should\u00a0not step out of the house, and should not\u00a0complain, whatever the man doles out to her. When You see such people, run for your life.<\/p>\n7. Those Who Can Never Trust Anybody<\/h3>\n
<\/a>These are those who believe that everybody is an\u00a0enemy. Everybody is filled with evil designs\u00a0against them. They have an obsession with fear\u00a0of people, including their spouse, that is rather irritating. Once a spouse cannot be trusted, there\u00a0can never be joy in the family. They see through\u00a0every action. They believe that everybody has evil\u00a0intentions.<\/p>\n8. Those Who Have No Respect For Others<\/h3>\n
<\/a>People can mouth love, but without respect, a\u00a0marriage can never be happy. Women who love to\u00a0prove a point by insulting their husbands, or men\u00a0who believe in treating their wives without dignity\u00a0in the name of cutting their wives to size: such\u00a0people make terrible marriage partners. Nothing\u00a0kills marriages like disrespect.<\/p>\n9. Ladies\u00a0Who See All Men As Competition<\/h3>\n
<\/a>Marriage is not a place for activism.\u00a0A woman\u00a0who sees a man as a competitor rather than a\u00a0complement is a dangerous person to marry.\u00a0When a man has to contend with a woman every\u00a0minute, when a man is always too conscious of\u00a0what to say or do to his wife, then there is a\u00a0problem at home.<\/span><\/p>\n10. Those Who Can\u2019t Control Their Temper<\/h3>\n
<\/a>Hot-tempered people are dangerous. They can\u00a0utter anything in anger. They can do things that\u00a0they will regret for life. They can be violent. Their\u00a0words can be venomous. They can put you in\u00a0trouble. They are unpredictable.<\/p>\n11. Those Who Cannot Forgive<\/h3>\n
<\/a>Forgiveness makes us look superhuman. But\u00a0there are those who cannot forgive, no matter the\u00a0circumstances. Not only can they not forgive, they\u00a0can also not forget. Because they can\u2019t forgive,\u00a0they usually think of how to get revenge.<\/p>\n12. Those Who Have Not Been Weaned Off Their Parents<\/h3>\n
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<\/a>Age has little to do with maturity in marriage.\u00a0Those who have not been \u201cweaned\u201d by their\u00a0parents make poor marriage partners. They are\u00a0full of \u201cMummy and Daddy issues\u201d. They take\u00a0every family discussion to their parents. They\u00a0cannot do anything unless their parents approve.\u00a0They allow their parents to run their homes in the\u00a0name of showing respect.\u00a0Those who are tied to the apron strings of their\u00a0parents make marriage tasteless. Such spouses\u00a0are a constant source of frustration and sadness.\u00a0You will always be wrong in their sight. You will\u00a0always be vilified.<\/p>\n