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As is the craze of the social media fashion, a heartbreaking love story has been making the rounds and no one is quite sure who the actual teller of the story is, but it has garnered quite a lot of sympathizers for the unknown lady teller.<\/p>\n

She tells of how she loved and lost and kept hoping until the year 2016 came to an end. Read the story:<\/p>\n

For seven years he was my only boyfriend.I moved in with him after 1 and half years of our relationship. On the third year I hinted marriage subject. He ignored it. I abandoned the subject and continued to be good to him. Yes I was good to him, in everyway.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

One Sunday evening, (is it evening or afternoon?) whatever you call that time of the day, we were watching Our Perfect Wedding and it was a chance for me to start the subject again. He then started to <\/em>cough, I gave him <\/em>amanzi and the coughing stopped. I told myself that today he will speak to me about this. And indeed he responded. Babe, I just got a new job which pays more money for me\u00a0to be\u00a0<\/em>able to afford lobola and other stuff.<\/em><\/p>\n

I smiled. There was hope…<\/em><\/p>\n

7 years into the relationship, and 13 months in his new job…<\/em> I am still hoping.\u00a0<\/em>You should see his 6 roomed house. I cleaned it, did washing and ironing, I cook, baked for him, I even bought the most beautiful curtains and bedding in all 3 bedrooms. You should see the pots I use…<\/em>I bought them at Queens with my bonus last year. And every time he hosts his friends at home for their usual social <\/em>codesa gatherings, I use the best dishes and glasses. He loves it when they tell him he has done well for himself.<\/em><\/p>\n

I think I have collected about a hundred and <\/em>seventy-eight CDs that I have been buying for him as presents over the past seven years. There is also a Lee Oscar CD there. He uses 3 ply toilet paper.<\/em><\/p>\n

Okay…<\/em> I went to his office after he asked me to pass by one day because I left my job early and when I got there at reception, the receptionist (Michelle) called his office and told him “there is a lady at reception by the name of <\/em>Phindi for you.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Let me cut a long story short and say to you that today as I’m seated here (Sat 24 Dec 2016) Thabiso is getting married to the receptionist (Michelle) in Witbank.<\/em><\/p>\n

I am back home.<\/em>
\nAnd you know what? My mother’s home was neglected all these years by me. The curtains in this house are torn and worn out. Bedding is embarrassing I can’t even open the bedroom door. Old and burnt Hart pots and no decent glass to have my Schweppes Granadilla. I use <\/em>lebekere\u00a0(unfashionable tin mug)<\/p>\n

Thabiso told me it is over, that he fell in love with Michelle on the 6th week at his new job and he wants to bring her to his home, I <\/em>should, therefore, make way for her. He paid lobola while I was still cleaning his house and cooking his favourite meal <\/em>braaipap and cooked short ribs.<\/em><\/p>\n

All my things are still at his house and I did not fetch them because I kept hoping that he will one day call me and tell me that he did a mistake and he wants me to come back. It is now 9 months since I left and he hasn’t called. I passed by his house one day in my friend’s car and she was washing my curtains.\u00a0<\/em>Michelle the receptionist was washing my curtains.\u00a0<\/em>She has 2 kids. I have none.\u00a0<\/em>She has him, I don’t.<\/em><\/p>\n

I’m shattered. But tomorrow I’m going to buy curtains for my mother at Marabastad. They are nice and affordable. I\u00a0<\/em>Will add 6 glasses, 4 cups and a kettle. There is no kettle at home.<\/em><\/p>\n

Thabiso has my 3 piece Russell Hobbs set and my Woolworth towels<\/em>…and Michelle has the ring…<\/em>But I cooked for him.”<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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