{"id":478,"date":"2014-05-07T14:02:48","date_gmt":"2014-05-07T13:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/buzzsouthafrica.com\/?p=478"},"modified":"2020-05-21T19:25:04","modified_gmt":"2020-05-21T18:25:04","slug":"dating-tips-for-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/buzzsouthafrica.com\/dating-tips-for-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 10 Dating Tips That Will Guarantee A Fun Time For South African Men"},"content":{"rendered":"
South Africa has been and still is one of the most important cities in the world. With some of the most advanced and most profitable industries and with one of the busiest ports in the worlds, South Africa never seems to amaze people. But with advancement comes an accompanied hazard, in the form of social relationships- dating. While South African men may have conquered the world of trade, dating is one field they are yet to master. Even with hundreds and thousands of websites, self-help books, dating gurus who are willing to dish out few dating tips for free, for many the world of dating seems to be like a never-ending mirage. Keeping these thoughts in mind, we did some research of our own to help out the average South African man, to have a fighting chance by coming up with 10 most useful real-world dating tips.<\/p>\n
1. The Ask Out<\/strong> Before starting our expedition on dating tips, you should remember that it all starts with the ask out. Most men are confident when it comes to sports and work, but when it comes to women, they are no better than Charlie Chaplin<\/a> in one of his movies. Asking a woman out is an art and only a few have mastered it. Many men make the mistake of coming on too strong as they cross over the fine line of flirting and just downright making a sexual pass. Asking out should be done in a smooth and friendly manner, making a woman laugh by cracking a few jokes is a nice way, that will make her comfortable and set up a good platform to ask her out. The biggest advantage of being friendly and funny is that in case she rejects you will at least be able to save face.<\/p>\n 2. Keep Work Out<\/strong> One of the biggest mistakes that most men from South Africa make is to talk about work. Women are not interested as to how hard you work or how badly you need to slog at the workplace. They are only interested in men who can keep them happy and interested, and for this reason, it is very important not to talk about work on a date.<\/p>\n 3. Put the Cell Phone Away<\/strong> Possibly one of the most basic dating tips that every man should remember is that every woman dislikes her man using his cell phone extensively when they are together, thereby giving her less attention. When you are out of work, the main focus should always be on the woman and not on your work calls. Women love getting attention and phone calls and messages can be a major turn off for any woman who is interested in you.<\/p>\n 4. Location Matters<\/strong> Even though few men can make some of the most boring places seem like a haven, most men can’t. Which is why it is very important to choose your location for a first date wisely. This is one of the most common dating tips that everyone offers, but they fail to specify what exactly to look for. Always go for a place that will make you feel like love is in the air, only when you feel the romantic ambience, will you be able to set up a good stage for a first date.<\/p>\n See Also: How To Turn A Girl On<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n 5. Talk Sense<\/strong> The most important thing about any date is the conversation which many seem to goof up. Do not ask her about her hobbies or interests, this gives women the feeling that you’re taking an interview rather than trying to spend some romantic time together with them. The best way to start a conversation is to start talking about some silly or goofy experience you had in your life, this little touch of humour and plain goofiness not only relaxes the women, but it also takes you down from the list of potential sexual predators.<\/p>\n
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