There have been lots of speculations that he is gay, but his romantic life is private, and there are no verified evidence that confirms his sexuality. Conan Gray may or may not be gay but one thing that is for sure is that he is not dating anybody now.
The American singer and songwriter has revealed that he is not in a relationship but remains hopeful for the future. While he waits for that hope to manifest, Gray is focusing on his music career. He has gone from a YouTube star to one of the biggest sensations in the pop music industry, dropping several hit singles such as Heather, Maniac, and Generation Why.
He also dropped his debut album, Kid Krow, in 2020. The album debuted at No. 5 on the Billboard 200 and was heavily inspired by his personal experiences in his love life. Some of these experiences were ugly but the singer refuses to give up on finding true love.
Is Conan Gray Bi?
No one can say with absolute certainty whether Conan Gary is bi and this is because the singer has yet to make any definitive statement on his sexuality. He is also careful to use non-gender-specific pronouns when talking about his past love life and this has made it difficult to figure out whether he is gay or bi or heterosexual. This has also led to a lot of speculations on his sexuality and these speculations are further fueled by his songs.
For instance, in his 2019 track – Checkmate, Gray promises to take revenge on two persons who dump him to date each other – a boy and a girl. He tries to reconnect with either of them but they both have eyes only for each other. The theme of this particular song would suggest that Conan Gray is bi but there is no confirmation to that effect. The singer himself tweeted the word “Bi” on the 11th of February 2018 but went on to define it as “bitchwhatthefuckkissmealready”.
bi is short for bike which is short for bichael which is short for bichelorette.
— conan gray (@conangray) January 3, 2018
Is Conan Gray Gay?
It is likely that Conan Gray is gay going by some of his most poignant song lyrics. For instance, in his 2020 song, The Story, he sang at length about two boys who were best friends but always wished that they could be more because they loved each other. Fear of public opinion however prevents them from exploring their love for each other until they move away to different states.
In yet another hit song of his titled Heather, Conan Gray sings about a lady named Heather whom he hates passionately simply because of the fact that his love interest prefers Heather. He goes on to accept that Heather has some very good qualities, including the fact that she is gentle and beautiful, and tries to mimic her qualities in order to get back his crush.
Conan Gray has admitted that both The Story and Heather, were heavily inspired by his personal life. Given the theme of both songs, two male best friends who are scared to explore their love for each other, and a guy that hates a girl because his crush prefers that girl, it won’t be out of place to assume that Conan Gray is gay.
The American Singer Refuses to Put a Label on His Sexuality
While we continue to ponder whether Conan Gray is gay or not, one thing that is for sure is that we won’t be getting any clarification soon from the singer. He has refused to do anything to douse the speculations. He rather enjoys poking fun at the whole issue on his social media accounts. Gray has also gone ahead to make it known that he hates putting labels on his sexuality.
In a February 2018 tweet, the singer asked everyone to let him be and declared that people were being annoying for wanting to put a label on his sexuality. Conan Gray made it clear that he had nothing against people who like putting specific labels on gender, sexuality, and beliefs if they found that helpful. He however asked them not to try to shove others, including himself, into a neat little easy-to-understand box. He stated that such made him mad and asked people to stop.
y’all are so annoying all y’all ever wanna do is place a label on me just let me fuckin exist what the fuck
— conan gray (@conangray) February 11, 2018
here’s the fucking deal. if labels on sexuality and gender and beliefs and all that great stuff are helpful for u, i’m all for it. u do u. but the second u start trying to shove everyone else into a neat little easy to understand box, i get mad. stop! please! fucking stop!
— conan gray (@conangray) February 11, 2018
Are Conan Gray and Olivia Rodrigo Dating?
Conan Gray and Olivia Rodrigo are not dating but they are best pals. The two singers first got to know each other through a producer named Dan Nigro and bonded over the fact that they are big fans of Taylor Swift’s music. Since then, they have become great friends and have cheered each other as they conquer new heights in the industry. For instance during Rodrigo’s Sour Prom concert in June 2021, Conan Gray was in attendance.
He was also by her side as she picked up the gong for best new artist at the 2021 American Music Awards. The two singers also attended several Halloween parties in Hollywood in September 2021. Conan Gray and Olivia Rodrigo have also gushed about each other on social media. For instance, on the occasion of Gray’s birthday in December 2021, Rodrigo shared a picture of both of them on Instagram and stated that she loved him more than anyone has ever loved anybody ever.
Such a declaration may have led to some wrong assumptions but the fact is that Olivia Rodrigo and Conan Gray are not dating. They are great pals and have even said so themselves. Olivia Rodrigo has stated in a radio interview in March 2021 that she and Gray are just pals and that she thinks he is brilliant. Gray also shared similar thoughts in another interview, stating that he loves Rodrigo so much and they are very much like siblings in every single way.
Who is Conan Gray Dating Now?
Conan Gray is not dating anyone at the moment. The singer revealed this in a February 2022 interview with GQ. He even stated that he had never dated anyone in his life and attributed it to his past experiences. According to the singer, he had fallen in love with people in the past and they did not love him back. One of these unrequited love was in high school and left him particularly devastated. It also made him anxious about dating anyone again.
The whole experience also made Conan Gray terrified about getting hurt and affected his love life. He is however determined to get back out there and try his luck again, having come to the realization that love can be casual and go slowly. Conan Gray also revealed that he is attracted to smart, nerdy, and passionate people who are open to learning about themselves.
Does Conan Gray Have a Wife?
Conan Gray does not have a wife. The singer has never been married though it is something that he is quite agreeable to. Gray has revealed in a past interview that one of the problems he has in dating is the fact that he assumes that every relationship should end up in marriage. He has however come to the realization that it always doesn’t pan out like that and has amended his train of thought.
Despite this, there is no doubt that Conan Gray hopes to get married someday, given that he is an old-fashioned romantic. Even if he were to be gay, this would not be a problem as many countries have legalized gay marriages.
